i grew up in chicago, chasing excellence as a competitive athlete before stepping into the corporate world as a strategy consultant. on paper, life looked like a success — but inside, i felt hollow, burnt out, and painfully disconnected from myself.
i was always the person who could push harder, go faster, achieve more. until my body said no. burnout left me exhausted, feeling like a foreigner in my own body. when i stumbled upon human design, it felt like someone handed me a map back to my own soul. i saw how i’d spent years trying to mold myself into what i thought i was supposed to be, forcing myself into spaces i was never meant to fit.
so, with nothing left to lose, i booked a one-way ticket to indonesia. i spent mornings wiping out on my surfboard and nights wrestling with the parts of me i’d spent years avoiding. i fell apart and learned to put myself back together, on my own terms.
then covid hit. i hid away in sri lanka while it felt like the world was burning down around me, but i found an even bigger storm inside. i sat with memories i’d buried, grief i’d swallowed, and beliefs that had kept me small. i lost myself, i found myself, i softened.
i started asking bigger questions: who am i without the masks? what kind of life would i choose if i wasn’t trying to be so strong all the time? could i really trust myself enough to follow what felt true?
i embraced discomfort — diving into healing modalities to “find myself,” only to realize there was nothing to find. i learned to listen to my body’s signals as i calmed my overactive nervous system and studied the mechanics of energy through human design. i cracked myself open with breathwork, discovering how powerful it is to release what words alone can’t touch. i moved from sri lanka back to indonesia, then to puerto rico and portugal — each place teaching me more about who i am and what i want to create.
i learned that transformation isn’t something you do once. it’s a constant process of rebecoming: meeting yourself again and again in every season of life, shedding what no longer fits, and choosing to live in deeper alignment with who you truly are.
now, i live and work from a place of spaciousness and truth, guiding others through their own process of rebecoming — so they can create lives that don’t just look good, but feel right.
